:: letting go of a person u've just learned to love
:: reminiscing the good times u shared together
:: shielding ur heart to love somebody
:: trying to hide what u really feel
:: trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from ur eyes
:: loving a person too much
:: giving up someone u never thought of giving up
:: having the right love at the wrong time
:: taking the risk to fall in love again
:: hiding ur relationship from someone else
:: controlling ur feelings to avoid hurting a friend
:: thinking of him every waking and sleeping moment knowing all the while that he never even thinks single thought of you...
:: letting go, because everytime you see the person, you only fall deeper
:: holding back only to find out when it's too late, you both felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didn't let the feelings out
:: falling inlove with someone you didnt mean to fall in love with
:: finding the perfect man...with only one prob....he doesnt love you...
:: helping the one you love court your friend
:: seeing the one you love crying for someone else
:: the waiting also hurts like hell
:: having to hear "I've met someone..."
:: agreeing to his wish to 'just be friends'.
:: asking his freedom back because 'he'd be happier with her'
:: asking u to 'forget that everything happened'and be 'normal' friends again.
:: hearing that you're treated as a little sister.
:: sharing his future plans for the girl with you.
:: u stopped being friends bcoz his girfriend asked him to.
:: being denied in front of people.
:: telling u lies about where he'd been when actually, he was with a 'new friend' or an 'old flame'!
:: telling u he's leaving u to return to his ex (d one he left 4 u!)
:: breaking someone's heart
:: fighting for that one thing that would make you happy
:: holding on to a person who cannot guarantee you his commitment until he has fixed himself...then, you are left hanging for the moment...then he says, time will tell...but you still decided to hope in him and trust him
:: PRETENDING you're OK when inside you're dying...
:: PRETENDING to be strong.... and RECOGNIZING your weakness
:: lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have..
:: being with someone you can't actually love...
:: pretending you don't love a person whom you actually love...
:: being in love...
:: letting go even if you really don't want to... having no right to say you are
hurting, because it was your decision...
:: seeing the person you love hurt because of you... and not being able to help that person...
:: having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love and finding out afterwards that things will never be the same again when he doesnt treat you with the same closeness as before
:: having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely destroying the wall that you have set for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable
:: admitting that you love someone despite his imperfections
:: finding out that the more you try to hate him, the more you end up loving him, perhaps even more than before...
:: realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to your break-up.
:: the thought that this guy, used to really love you and you loved him as well but you didn't give enough and he gave up on you
:: Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else....."
:: making a promise....and realizing that when the time has come for that promise to be delivered....the commitment is no longer there...
:: the hardest thing about love - believing it exists.
After you've been hurt...
...learn to forgive
...learn to trust and love again
Grabe! After all those hurtful things said and done, dalawa lang ang katapat ng pagkarami-rami. "To forgive and To trust and love again." Hindi ba't unfair?
3 comments:
dang! this is a very good post! its all very true. i guess im in the same situation or maybe im having the same feeling like u do. guess in time i will have the courage to face all these things that im goin through. im still weak but im trying to be strong as much as i could. whoa! ang drama! :P
taga mandaluyong ako pero baka i will stay at my tita's place sa cainta or maybe at my other friends place. haha! palaboy ako pagdating ng pinas which makes me happy and i enjoy it! lolz...yeah in God's will, i hope we could meet. take care moieee. mwahugs.
pwede ba mahiram yung post mo?haha. :D tnx for sharing these thoughts. :)
go ahead ychel, share it to others.
haayyy ditto to most of them.
pwedeng magdagdag?
"don't close your doors for others to knock..." eh kung let's just be friends na lang kaya sinabi nya, mas madali pang sabihin at straightforward pa.
sa totoo lang ha, feeling ko we are being made into participants in a relationship experiment. there's the Girlfriend A is the control and Girlfriend B experimental... if he has doubts with GA, he goes to GB only to find out in the end that GA was the one he really wanted to be with afterall. hah! kakainis talaga, im not a guinea pig, no one is.
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