9/2/08

Decode His Strange Dating Behaviors

1. WHEN HE MONOPOLIZES CONVERSATIONS....
He might be more nervous than egomaniacal. Smitten men often brag to try to prove that they're good enough for you. Interject with your own stories. If he's a quality dude, he'll listen up.

2. WHEN HE FAILS TO MAKE A MOVE....
The truth is, guys have gotten so many mixed messages about how to fast to push things physically, they can get insecure and freeze up. If you want things to progress, you may need to give a subtle green light by grabbing his hand or leaning in for a kiss.

3. WHEN HE OVEREXPLAINS TO CANCEL PLANS....
At this stage, all you need to hear is a quick reason and an attempt to reschedule. Excess details could indicate that something's going on that he feels like he has to cover up (another girl, perhaps??). It may be an attempted blow off.

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