(inspired from my friend, Ria)
Its painful sometimes that no matter how long have been in a relationship with your current love... it's easy for arguments to ruin it and call it quits. Some may say it's just a spurt of fight or flight response that makes us vulnerable even with petty quarrels, but I'd say, it's more than that. When you're comfortable about your relationship you would want anything to preserve it... but sometimes one slips and falls taht causes jealousy and insecurity to kick in.
Trust is the main thing of all... though you know that you trust him/her still the feeling of doubt may still cloud over somehow. It's just a matter of talking things out that can shoo it away. Argumetns like "not calling of your whereabouts" or "being so overly protective" are things you can talk things through. But... tables turn sometimes. And when I mean it that way, oh boy! It's not really a good news. It means that the little above arguments have turned worse by digging up those past lousy memories and incorporating it again to the conversation. As an example would be the lines, "remember the time when..." and "you are not like this before..." blah blah blah and shit can make argumetns seem like forever. Believe me, it's like an old record playing in your grandma's attic when you come visit her.
Annoying as it is, the only way out is to forget about those past because that's why it's called "PAST" damnit! It should be non-existent pretty much. Past stuffs are those that had been argued about long time ago and is meant to be forgotten and forgiven already especially when it's pretty traumatic enough to handle. Embrace your trust to each other and it will never leave you two alone. Both people willing to trust themselves with each other, earns trust.
Nobody said relationships are always a grand time. Relationship is tackling life experiences side by side with the one you love. It's the risk all of us have to take when we fall in-love... so think about it!
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